Strong Bible Verses to Survive A Painful Divorce

When you’re going through a divorce, life feels completely upside down. Everything that you knew to be true somehow now feels false. And that’s when the enemy can sneak in and whisper more lies, to drag you down and keep you in a state of depression and anxiety. Here are a few healing + strong Bible verses to help you survive divorce, keep the enemy away, and come out stronger.

For more Bible verses, check out Breakthrough Bible Verses for Depression and Hopelessness, Why Does God Allow Suffering? A Promising Look At Hebrews 12, and How to Survive a Trial and Overcome Suffering

We never expect divorce

When you say, “I do,” you never think a time will come when you say, “I don’t.”

Truly, experiencing a divorce is like having a house fire. It’s a tragedy no one ever expects. Everything you once knew to be reality is gone, sometimes overnight. The present becomes unbearable and unmanageable. Memories are darkened. And future plans have disintegrated into thin air.

And while your spouse may (or may not) appear to be in good shape, you might be left running around frantically in flames. The stop, drop, and roll method does not work here. Or maybe, you’re standing there watching it all burn to a crisp, feeling helpless to stop it.

So what do we do? Is there anything we can do?

What to do during a divorce

First off, and this goes without saying, but we go into prayer.

Prayer is one of the most powerful weapons we can have during a tragedy like divorce. And if you don’t feel like praying, or are having a hard time speaking to God, this is all the more reason to pray. Direct communication with the Father is ALWAYS going to bring healing. We may not see it right away, but eventually you WILL see it.

Second, we need to be sure to find a good support system. Isolating will not help you grow; it will only breed rumination and loneliness. It’s also a trap from the enemy; if he can isolate you, he can make you question everything, even your own sanity.

Signing up for a program such as Divorce Care can help connect you with other people going through the same thing, as well as provide a safe place to share your struggles about divorce. A program such as this will give you the tools you need to make it through one of the toughest battles of your life.

And trust me, you’re gonna need it.

Third, seek out healing materials to help you process the divorce. Understand that this will take time; this ain’t no overnight fix. Podcasts, videos, or books are great resources to rely on, and educate yourself on the process and healing of divorce.

Podcast on divorce

If you want to listen to my podcast on surviving divorce, check out this episode:

Bible verses for divorce

Here are some of my favorite Bible verses to help you through this time. Print these out, screenshot them, write them on sticky notes and put them on your mirror. Then, read them out loud every day.

Having scripture is a powerful weapon… use it!!

Psalm 34:18 (ESV)

The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.

Psalm 34:4 (NIV)

I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears.

Psalm 31:7-8 (ESV)

I will rejoice and be glad in your steadfast love, because you have seen my affliction; you have known the distress of my soul,

and you have not delivered me into the hand of the enemy; you have set my feet in a broad place.

2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.

In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

Revelation 21:4 (NIV)

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

Isaiah 43:19 (ESV)

Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

Romans 8:28 (NIV)

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

Isaiah 41:10 (ESV)

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Isaiah 54:5-6 (ESV)

For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is his name;
and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth he is called.

For the Lord has called you like a wife deserted and grieved in spirit, like a wife of youth when she is cast off, says your God.

Matthew 11:28-29 (NIV)

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."

Final Thoughts

Going through a divorce sucks. It’s one of the worst things that can happen to a marriage. However, just because we are going through a divorce, that doesn’t mean we can’t find peace and healing through Christ. Jesus brings peace that passes all understanding, and the Holy Spirit is THE comforter!!

Rest in that today. You’re gonna get through this friend.

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